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Writing on mental load, invisible work, ADHD,
and the systems that make everyday life lighter.
New posts every week.
Writing on mental load, invisible work, ADHD,
and the systems that make everyday life lighter.
New posts every week.
Most household systems fail because they demand more attention than a real week has room for. Here’s what a hub that waits for you looks like.
Thirty days with a medication log that never leaves the device — what changed, what the tradeoffs are, and where TallyMed stops on purpose.
A 2026 study found 91% of adults with ADHD mask their traits — and it measurably costs attention and memory. Here's why wearing it instead helps.
Vacation doesn't pause the mental load — it strips away the routines that usually carry it. Here's why the anticipating work gets harder, not easier.
Two People Track the Same Kid's Symptoms. Neither One Has the Full Picture. - September 16, 2026 -
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Two People Track the Same Kid's Symptoms. Neither One Has the Full Picture. - September 16, 2026 -
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Verbal handoffs between caregivers compress detail fast. Here's why "she felt warm" loses the information a doctor actually needs — and what helps.
Your brain goes completely blank the second the door opens. Here's how to make sure the question survives the room.
The fall sniffles-season scramble is coming, same as every year. This time, something's arriving to help.
A weekend off doesn't fix an ADHD brain. What actually helps is a softer landing back into it.
Nobody Grades Your To-Do List, So Stop Writing It Like Someone Will - August 15, 2026 - Read the post
Nobody Grades Your To-Do List, So Stop Writing It Like Someone Will - August 15, 2026 - Read the post
The list wasn't a fair measure of you. It was a report card for a robot who doesn't exist.
The calendar isn't broken. The entry on it is incomplete — and that's why the mental load still feels unshared.
The calendar person you're waiting to become isn't coming. Here's what to build instead of waiting for her.
Working memory, time blindness, sensory overload, and RSD collide with a newborn's schedule — and what actually helps, in the fog.
You know when the car needs an oil change. You don't know when you last read a book for fun.
The dishes got split fine. It's the remembering that never got split at all.
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